fix(highlights): only show successfully reachable relays in flight mode

When creating highlights in flight mode (no remote connection), only show local relays in the relay indicator tooltip. Check connection status to determine which relays are actually reachable before setting publishedRelays field.

src/services/highlightCreationService.ts

@@ -114,12 +114,27 @@ export async function createHighlight(
   eventStore.add(signedEvent)
   console.log('💾 Stored highlight in EventStore:', signedEvent.id.slice(0, 8))
   
-  // Check if we're only publishing to local relays
-  const isLocalOnly = areAllRelaysLocal(targetRelays)
+  // Check current connection status - are we online or in flight mode?
+  const connectedRelays = Array.from(relayPool.relays.values())
+    .filter(relay => relay.connected)
+    .map(relay => relay.url)
+  
+  const hasRemoteConnection = connectedRelays.some(url => 
+    !url.includes('localhost') && !url.includes('127.0.0.1')
+  )
+  
+  // Determine which relays we expect to succeed
+  const expectedSuccessRelays = hasRemoteConnection 
+    ? RELAYS 
+    : RELAYS.filter(r => r.includes('localhost') || r.includes('127.0.0.1'))
+  
+  const isLocalOnly = areAllRelaysLocal(expectedSuccessRelays)
   
   console.log('📍 Highlight relay status:', {
-    targetRelays,
+    targetRelays: targetRelays.length,
+    expectedSuccessRelays,
     isLocalOnly,
+    hasRemoteConnection,
     eventId: signedEvent.id
   })
   
@@ -130,7 +145,7 @@ export async function createHighlight(
   
   // Convert to Highlight with relay tracking info and return IMMEDIATELY
   const highlight = eventToHighlight(signedEvent)
-  highlight.publishedRelays = targetRelays
+  highlight.publishedRelays = expectedSuccessRelays // Show only relays we expect to succeed
   highlight.isLocalOnly = isLocalOnly
   highlight.isOfflineCreated = isLocalOnly // Mark as created offline if local-only